This is true, the air gets thinner. Thinner but higher quality and more satisfying. You become MORE attractive but more intimidating and uncomfortable. The right ones will come.
What you refer to is the paradox of the "ugly duckling" or something similar where the focus of desire moves faster and quicker than the desirer does! Not your problem, unless you're the desirer, then Giddyup!!! You've got get moving! Conversely, you're the object of desire, well now you get to "select" or "invite" any of those who secretly desire your attention! Not a bad position to be in.
This is true, the air gets thinner. Thinner but higher quality and more satisfying. You become MORE attractive but more intimidating and uncomfortable. The right ones will come.
Keu, NOT A GOOD REASON TO "BECOME BETTER"!
Becoming better is "God Like"!
What you refer to is the paradox of the "ugly duckling" or something similar where the focus of desire moves faster and quicker than the desirer does! Not your problem, unless you're the desirer, then Giddyup!!! You've got get moving! Conversely, you're the object of desire, well now you get to "select" or "invite" any of those who secretly desire your attention! Not a bad position to be in.