The better you get, the fewer women you may attract. Sounds backward, right? In this Seduction Tech episode, Keu Reyes breaks down the psychology behind why self-improvement often intimidates women instead of drawing them closer.
Drawing on Dr. David Buss’s landmark 1989 cross-cultural study on mate preferences and the University of Kansas research on unattainability bias, this episode reveals the hidden truth: the higher your value, the more unattainable you seem.
Keu explains why women compare you to men they could never realistically have, and why your growth makes you appear out of reach. Using the “elevator” metaphor, he illustrates how as you rise levels in life, fewer people can join you, and why loneliness at the top is not failure but proof that you are on the right path.
🎯 In this episode you will learn:
Why the more you grow, the harder it is for women to approach you
How unattainability bias changes attraction dynamics
Why intimidation can mask itself as disinterest
The importance of embracing “lonely at the top” as a sign of progress
How to find new levels of connection with women who match your growth
📝 Takeaway: Keep climbing. Growth means leaving behind what no longer fits.
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